所以就只有簡單的奉茶 跟交換戒指囉
(很多台灣人的訂婚儀式 會有婆婆幫媳婦戴項鍊 跟 丈母娘幫女婿帶項鍊的橋段 吳馬麻還開玩笑說 Mr.E 長得太高了 要是要幫他戴項鍊 還有點困難哩!)
不過 儀式裡面該有甚麼 其實就是雙方溝通好 大家開心最重要
有時候會在儀式上看到兩家人互相想給對方 "下馬威"
有時我都心想 哀~~~~~何苦勒~~~~~~
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Anyways
感謝我們雙方家長都很明理啦!!
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大家要記得 訂婚的時候 女生是要坐在一個高腳椅上
但是坐的時候 一定要一次就坐好 不能坐好之後還再移動喔 因為這是要求 "一次到位" 討個吉利囉!
所以君悅的司儀有提醒我 一定要坐到最後面 不然穿著禮服 很容易會滑動
他也告訴我 他會先幫我把裙子拉好 真的覺得OK了 才能坐下去
而就定位後就是要戴戒指啦!
先是男生幫女生戴唷!
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Mr.E 緊張到都發抖啦! 還笑場哩!!
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戴好戒指就算訂婚啦!!!!
我們戴的戒指
男生是 一個金戒 跟我們的柏金對戒
女生的則是 一個金戒 跟我的求婚鑽戒 (鉑金對戒則是在儀式前我就自己先戴好左手無名指囉)
兩個戒指再用紅線綁起來
為什麼勒? 因為 人家說 要 一金一銅 銅金= 同心
而現在沒有人再戴銅戒啦 就是鑽戒 或柏金的囉
我們因為都戴了跟金戒綁再一起的戒指了 是走台灣習俗
所以 儀式上的交換戒指 也是戴在台灣式的 男左女右 都是中指 而非西式的左手無名指唷
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